Have You Been Naughty? A Brand Spanking Way to Fire Up Your Love Life

Being in an intimate relationship is very rewarding, but the intimacy can mean you become so comfortable with each other that your sexual relationship starts to suffer. There are many ways to fire things up in your relationship and one of the most fulfilling, and beneficial to your health, is spanking!

Spanking is the action of taking the palm of the hand, or a paddle-like surface, to your partner’s buttocks and is considered by many to be a satisfying and erotic pastime. Spanking may be a taboo in some circles, but it is certainly not wrong and has powerful psychological advantages. Obviously a couple who wish to try spanking must discuss it beforehand and be happy to explore the realms of erotic opportunity that spanking provides.

However, there are differences between an erotic spanking and a disciplinary spanking.

Erotic spankings are normally utilised by couples to add a bit of fire to their intimate time together. These spankings tend to be playful and fun. They can also involve role-plays such as one person acting as a teacher, whilst the other is the naughty pupil who hasn’t done their homework. As the couple knows that the spanking will finish with hot and heavy sex, the erotic nature of the spanking helps to heat things up quickly and can even help the man achieve a stronger erection.

Disciplinary spankings can be just as erotic, but involve a darker streak. The spanking doesn’t always end in sexual intercourse, so the positive psychological effects have more to do with the spanker dominating the spankee and the spankee submitting to the domination. Many couples use disciplinary spanking to define and strengthen their roles within the relationship and they relish pushing themselves to their limits, both physically and psychologically.

You’ll be pleased to know that spanking is a rewarding experience for more than just the psychological reasons. Whilst it could cause the recipient to feel painful externally, internally it’s doing some amazing things for your health. Research has revealed that spanking triggers a release of endorphins. Endorphins are a hormone that is naturally produced by the body after strong physical exertions such as exercise. Linked to feelings of euphoria and overwhelming positivity, endorphins have a powerful positive effect on the body and mind. Other health benefits include a reduction in appetite and a boosting of the immune response. Pain is also receptive to endorphins and it is thought that a surge can have the same calming effect on pain as drugs such as morphine.

Whether you use your hand, the back of a hair brush or a decorated paddle, spanking is always best administered on a bare bottom. If spanking does tickle your fancy, get your hands on an aid as some even come with instructions and well-drawn diagrams to help you direct those blows for you and your partner’s pleasure — and pain. Buying spanking aids online is easy and discreet, meaning you can get what you need without even leaving the house.

So next time you are looking to fuel those bedroom fires, you and your partner could look into giving spanking a try. It’ll do you the world of good, get those endorphins flowing and make those fires burn.

Janine Barclay writes for a digital marketing agency. This article has been commissioned by a client of said agency. This article is not designed to promote, but should be considered professional content.