Building a relationship needs a lot of eye contact and various other physical factors. This is the reason why many people have very strong views against online dating. But with the passage of time the critics of online dating have been proved wrong. Chatting online or sending romantic emails are just so different from flirting. Flirting online can be very difficult for many. Since it is mainly considered to be done at a physical level and there are certain key aspects such as eye contact, body language and smiling, etc. As these factors are absent so it becomes difficult to flirt online.
Flirting is an art and requires a lot of confidence and mastery. You have got to balance your actions and words in a manner so that you seem natural and not over the top. There are many things that work for both physical flirting and online flirting alike. There are some aspects that have to be taken into consideration while flirting online – if you go too far she might think you to be ‘slimy’ and if you do not fill up the desired distance then she might think you to be ‘wimpy’. So how can you strike the balance and achieve these ends without any eye contact or body language? Here are a few suggestions:
1. Do have fun while dating online. Flirting is a playful act so be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. But humor should not be stretched too far as humor at the beginning might be mistaken. Try and measure what type of humor you can get away with.
2. You should make your sessions simple. The emails and the chats should be short and simple. They should not contain words that are hard to comprehend. Use day to day speaking language while communicating.
3. Successful flirts are those that have a lot of confidence. They have a positive attitude upon life and they spread this to the people around them. There is always the need to make your date feel at home while communicating with you. Give her a ‘feel good factor’. Remember that every woman is attracted to confident and optimistic men.
4. You should always pay attention to what your date says and from time and again ask her relevant questions. Successful flirts also have a third ear. A third ear is a capability to listening beyond what is spoken, or reading the lines of her messages. You have got to make her feel that she is interesting and you are interested in her.
5. Compliment her from time to time but be sincere about your comments. Nothing makes your date happier than a good compliment. Make her feel good about herself and comment on something that is unique and subtle in her.
6. You can be bold but yet it is desirable to avoid the sexual overtones. Using sexual suggestions and innuendos can turn her off.
7. Send an email after you have finished chatting. This is a sort of a thank you note for a gift that you have received from your date.
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